Write your memoir.

Work within, not against, your limitations to write your story like an artist and sell it like a pro.

Welcome to our three-month professional memoir-writing program, where we’ll help you finish your book with real-life flexibility and expert guidance. We provide top-notch education on both craft and the publishing industry from the literary world’s most brilliant and best-selling authors.

The Academy is closed indefinitely starting June 15th. Learn more about our special sale of the materials at $197 here.

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AS SEEN IN

People

The New Yorker

Autostraddle

The New York Times

BBC Radio

People • The New Yorker • Autostraddle • The New York Times • BBC Radio •

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Why writing your memoir feels so hard…

And what we can help you do about it.

You have a story. A big one. A real one. A beautiful, messy, complicated, and necessary one. But let’s be honest—if writing a memoir were easy, you’d already have a finished book sitting on your desk, ready to send to publishers.

Instead, you…

  • Start and stop more times than you can count.

  • Stare at the screen, wondering where to begin.

  • Feel overwhelmed by how much life there is to untangle.

  • Struggle to find a structure that makes sense of the events of your life.

  • Wonder if anyone will even care about your story (spoiler: they will).

Maybe you’ve tried a writing class before, but it left you more confused than clear. Or maybe you’ve just been waiting for the perfect moment to start.

But let’s be real: if life has taught you anything, it’s that the perfect moment never comes.

Which is why you need a writing process designed for real life—one that works with your constraints, gives you structure, and helps you actually finish.

That's why The Unexpected Shape Writing Academy exists: to help you find clarity, structure, and the confidence to keep writing.

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Not a Traditional Program—That’s the Point.

We’re breaking the mold on what it takes to be a “real” writer.

You're already a real writer. That's not your roadblock. What's in your way is that you need help getting from idea to book — getting to that next level. And you just want someone to tell you what works.

DISCOVER YOUR SUSTAINABLE WRITING RHYTHM

  • Finally experience the profound relief of a writing practice that works with your body, not against it.

  • Shed the shame and guilt that comes from trying to follow one-size-fits-all writing advice.

  • Develop personalized rhythms that honor your energy fluctuations.

FINISH WHAT YOU START

  • Move beyond the cycle of abandoned projects and half-finished drafts.

  • Maintain momentum even through health flares and caregiving emergencies with our structured blend of flexibility and accountability.

  • Prove to yourself that interruptions won't derail your entire vision.

RECLAIM YOUR CREATIVE IDENTITY

  • Experience the transformative power of being seen and understood as a complete writer—not defined by your limitations but not required to ignore them either.

  • Unlock creative energy you've been using to navigate shame and isolation.

GAIN INDUSTRY-READY SKILLS

  • Develop the craft and strategic knowledge needed to create memoir writing that meets professional standards.

  • Learn to shape your personal experiences into compelling narratives that resonate with readers and stand out to agents and editors.

  • Gain both the artistic tools and practical industry knowledge to move your work toward publication.

JOIN A COMMUNITY THAT "GETS IT"

  • End the exhausting cycle of feeling like the "problem student" while explaining your needs and limitations.

  • Become a writer among writers who understand.

  • Create lasting relationships with fellow creators who can continue to support your journey for years to come.

TRANSFORM LIMITATION INTO CREATIVE ADVANTAGE

  • Discover how your unique perspective and life circumstances aren't obstacles to overcome but are actually the source of your most powerful writing.

  • Generate more authentic, distinctive work that resonates deeply with readers.

EXPERIENCE THE CONFIDENCE OF CLEAR DIRECTION

  • Replace overwhelming confusion with clarity about your project and path forward.

  • Identify exactly what your memoir needs and the precise steps to bring it to life, eliminating the energy-draining uncertainty that keeps many writers stuck.

The true transformation of the Unexpected Shape Writing Academy isn't just a finished manuscript—it's the profound shift from seeing yourself as a writer despite your limitations to recognizing that your unique circumstances are integral to the stories only you can tell. It's time to stop waiting for your life to match conventional writing advice and instead build a writing practice as unique and resilient as you are.

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A memoir-writing program that works with your life, not against it.

The Unexpected Shape Writing Academy is the only full-curriculum, carefully constructed online memoir-writing program that understands and honors your life’s constraints.

Whether you’re navigating chronic illness, caretaking responsibilities, or other limitations, we believe these aren’t obstacles to your writing—they are integral to your creative process. Here, you’ll learn both the art of memoir and the art of building a first-rate book proposal in a way that works for you.

This is not a rushed, one-size-fits-all approach. Just as a cathedral cannot be built in a week, a sellable book proposal takes time, intention, and the right scaffolding. That’s exactly what we create together in our three-month cohort—a foundation that supports you now and far into the future.

And whether you’re working on a book or another form of personal nonfiction, this Academy will guide you toward clarity, confidence, and a tangible path forward in your writing journey.

Here’s what you’ll leave with

  • A sustainable writing practice that honors your natural creative rhythms and builds genuine momentum, allowing you to make consistent progress without burning out or forcing creativity when it's not flowing.

  • Expert craft instruction that transforms personal experiences into compelling narratives with universal appeal, teaching you how to elevate your individual story into something that resonates deeply with readers.

  • Connection to a supportive community of fellow writers who understand creative ambition and can provide meaningful feedback, encouragement, and accountability throughout your writing journey.

  • Clear, practical pathways toward publication that demystify the process from drafting to submission, giving you insider knowledge on navigating the often confusing world of literary agents, publishers, and submission strategies.

  • Professional insights from award-winning authors whose work has resonated with diverse readers, offering you proven strategies that have succeeded in today's competitive literary marketplace.

  • A transformed relationship with writing that feels like coming home to yourself rather than forcing yourself to be someone you're not, allowing your authentic voice and perspective to shine through in every word.

What You Get in an Academy Membership

A full-service, online writing school open to all. Our work takes place over a three-month cohort, where you’ll move through a transformative curriculum at your own pace and benefit from:

  • Structured curriculum across 12 recorded modules, plus an introduction and conclusion

  • Connection and accountability with the other members of your cohort through the Circle community

  • Bi-weekly coworking sessions and other community events throughout your three-month program

  • Monthly group coaching calls with Esmé

    We care about being knowledgeable, generous, and aesthetically pleasing (because hey—beauty does add to the experience).

THE PATHWAY

Our curriculum of twelve classes led by best-selling author Esmé Weijun Wang. All in a structured approach that honors your own pace—learn when you can, on-demand. Finally, a memoir curriculum that doesn't demand you write like someone without limitations.

Our carefully crafted curriculum, or The Pathway, guides you through pre-writing, drafting, and publication preparation in a sequence that builds momentum while respecting your energy fluctuations. No more cobbling together fragmented advice or abandoning courses mid-way—this integrated approach means every small step you take contributes meaningfully to your larger vision, even on days when you can only manage fifteen minutes of creative work.

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THE CANOPY

Exclusive lectures from best-selling luminaries who understand the power of personal story. Access 12 exceptional guest lectures from award-winning authors who have transformed their own complex experiences into acclaimed work. These aren't superficial "inspiration talks" but substantive, intimate craft discussions that help you refine your unique voice—a Canopy of experts to look up to.

The best part? These recordings are available whenever your body and schedule allow, eliminating the anxiety of missing crucial content during flare-ups or caregiving emergencies.

  • Leslie Jamison (The Recovering, The Empathy Exams), a New York Times bestselling author whose work has redefined contemporary memoir.

  • Hanif Abdurraqib (Go Ahead in the Rain, They Can’t Kill Us Until They Kill Us), a MacArthur “Genius” grant recipient and one of the most compelling cultural critics of our time.

  • Melissa Febos, an acclaimed author and essayist known for lyrical, intimate works exploring identity, trauma, and desire, including Girlhood and Body Work.

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PSSSST…On the go? As a member, you can also access all Academy lectures and courses through your favorite podcast app.

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THE COMPASS

A set of two additional guided activities to direct you in writing within your limitations—not despite them. Our proprietary Dream Hunting with Limitations and Building a Writing Habit While Living with Limitations processes have guided hundreds of writers with chronic conditions and caregiving responsibilities toward sustainable creative practices. Unlike traditional writing advice that makes you feel inadequate when you can't "power through," the tools that make up The Compass help you build writing habits that work in harmony with your actual life. We don't ask you to overcome your body's realities—we help you transform them into the foundation of your unique creative process.

  • Dream Hunting with Limitations—our proprietary, step-by-step process for creating a roadmap from limitations to success that has helped hundreds of writers worldwide.

  • Building a Writing Habit While Living with Limitations—a unique approach designed specifically for writers balancing creative ambitions with life’s realities.

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THE GROVE

An online community that never asks you to explain your limitations. Join biweekly co-working sessions where "I need to work from bed today" or "I can only manage 20 minutes" is completely understood. Participate in monthly group coaching calls with Esmé Weijun Wang where both craft questions and real-time feedback happen in a space that honors your pace and process. Here, you're never the "difficult" student asking for accommodations—you're simply a writer whose specific circumstances are woven into the fabric of how we work together. The Grove is where you stand in grounded community and grow together.

  • Biweekly co-working sessions—because writing is easier when you’re not alone.

  • Two group coaching calls per month with Esmé:

    • The Craft Lab—Ask questions and get expert guidance

    • The First Pass—Get live, supportive cold reads among friends

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By the end of your cohort, you will have the scaffolding of your book proposal and/or memoir—along with the knowledge and confidence to carry it forward on your own timeline.

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OH & ONE MORE THING


Introducing the VIP Academy Membership—for the next level of mentorship.

If you want all of the above and you also want direct feedback from Esme on your work & regular communication and coaching one-on-one, consider becoming a VIP.

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For $1,800, VIP members get everything in the standard program PLUS:

  • Ongoing Voxer access to Esmé (so you can ask questions, get unstuck, and receive encouragement in real time).

  • Personalized feedback on up to 10,000 words of your work—actual hands-on critique from Esmé herself.

  • A deeper level of mentorship—perfect if you’re looking for more accountability, direct guidance, and expert eyes on your writing.

Personalized guidance from someone who understands.

This isn't just another workshop leader reading your pages—it's personalized guidance from a bestselling author who intimately understands the complex reality of creating while navigating limitations. When energy for explaining yourself is precious, working with someone who already "gets it" becomes not just helpful but essential to your progress.

Perhaps what you want is not just another online class, but a real, live human to talk to who will give you their full attention. A person to work with one-on-one who has won awards in both nonfiction and fiction, is a Contributing Editor for Poets & Writers Magazine, and has written a New York Times-bestselling essay collection. Someone who will speak to you directly about the challenges that you face, give you feedback on your work, and help you find the light at the end of your confusion.

That's what you'll get when you sign up for a VIP Academy Membership.

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The Transformative Power of Personalized Mentorship

FINDING SUPPORT AND CONNECTIONS

"I joined the Unexpected Shape Academy searching for community. I was looking for a supportive environment to nurture my growing writing ambitions. Esmé and the community she cultivates is just what I was looking for. She gave me access to authors and industry experts I had never thought I would interact with. This work of breaking down barriers made me believe that my ambition could materialize into actual essays and maybe even an actual book.

Working with Esmé 1-on-1 has only cemented my resolve to continue investing in my writerly ambitions. I know my work will be received with care. Her insight has always pushed my writing to a new level. I have also gained a champion for my work. Esme has connected me to other members of the literary community. She’s provided recommendations on where my work can live on. Moreover, she talks about my book as something that will exist in the future. That kind of support pushes me to keep writing so that this book does eventually see the light of day. And when it does, Esmé will be in the acknowledgments."

—Alex Clemente

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FINISHING A BOOK PROPOSAL IN WEEKS

"At the time, the ‘book proposal’ [was] still just a bunch of ideas in the back of my mind, and scribbled in the pages of my journal. And then, just as I start to think I really need to do something about pulling this proposal together, I get an email from my friend Esmé Weijun Wang, a talented writer who has done a fantastic job editing projects for me in the past. Out of the blue, after nearly a year without contact, she says, 'I’m just checking in about possible projects. Do you have anything you need editing?' Well, funny you should ask…

And so, with Esme’s help I put together an ambitious plan to write my entire book proposal in a matter of weeks, with regular Skype check-ins and frequent reviews. The pressure it puts on me is just what I need and the proposal starts to flow."

—Beth Kempton, bestselling author of Freedom Seeker and We Are In This Together

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RECEIVING WORLD-CLASS FEEDBACK

"Upon completing my manuscript, I popped it off to Esmé and was wow'd by the experience of working with her to prepare my precious cargo for publication!

Our working relationship involved that rare combination of speed, reliability AND the highest quality feedback. Esmé was so attuned to my intentions for the book and any suggestions were communicated with great sensitivity and care.

Of course I gladly agreed with anything she noted as her input elevated the overall result, without a doubt. Hire Esmé!"

—Dr. Ezzie Spencer, author of Lunar Abundance

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DEMYSTIFYING THE INDUSTRY

"Esmé is a brilliant writer who cares intensely about community, with a deeply generous approach to sharing knowledge and uplifting others' voices. She helps make our literary communities a better and more expansive place, and anyone being mentored by Esmé will surely learn a great deal about writing practices, paths toward and through publishing, and what can often be an opaque and confusing industry.

We should all be so lucky as to be guided along the way by someone as astute as Esmé."

—R.O. Kwon, author of Exhibit and editor of Kink

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GAINING A TRUE MENTOR

"Esmé Weijun Wang is not only brilliant, she's one of the hardest working writers I know. Her thoughtfulness, dedication, and attention to detail would benefit anyone working with her in a mentorship role."

—Rachel Khong, author of Real Americans and Goodbye, Vitamin

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You could be next. Join a cohort as a VIP member and gain extra support for your story.

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Hello! I’m Esmé, your new ally in the writing world.

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I’m a writer and teacher—the author of the award-winning, New York Times-bestselling essay collection The Collected Schizophrenias (2019), as well as the novel The Border of Paradise (2016), which was named one of NPR’s Best Books of 2016; I was selected by Granta for their once-a-decade Best of Young American Novelists list of 21 authors under 40.

My personal essay collection was one of TIME’s 10 Best Nonfiction Books of 2019 and one of People Magazine’s Best Books of 2019; it also won the Graywolf Nonfiction Prize, the prestigious Whiting Award, and the Northern California Award for Creative Nonfiction.

A former MFA Visiting Professor in Creative Nonfiction at San Jose State University and a current Contributing Editor for Poets & Writers Magazine, I’ve also made appearances on the Today Show, NPR’s Weekend Edition, KCRW, the New York Times, the CBC, Flavorwire, and the New Yorker Online.

I built the writing academy I wish that I had.
— Esmé Weijun Wang

The Academy helps members …

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 Inside the Academy Curriculum

Explore the full journey of memoir-writing organized in step-by-step modules that guide you from the foundations of your story to a full proposal or draft. Welcome to the Pathway.

Academy 101 (Foundations)

Learn the essential building blocks of writing your memoir—and get started right away.

Pre-Writing

Reflect, journal, and explore—get organized about your creative process and principles before turning to the page.

Writing

Time to put words on the page—and confront all the emotions that come up when writing about our lives.

Publication

Now you’re ready to find the right audience and get your work in the hands of publishers—time to launch your words into the world.

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 Learn from today’s leading literary voices

Let your guest lecturers welcome you to the Canopy.

Great memoirs aren’t written in isolation. That’s why we’ve brought in acclaimed writers and industry professionals to share their expertise—offering you insight, encouragement, and practical tools. Learn from those who’ve been where you are, and take in the wisdom that will help shape your own story with confidence.

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Stephanie Foo New York Times-bestselling author of What My Bones Know

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Hanif Abdurraqib
MacArthur Fellow and author of They Can’t Kill Us Till They Kill Us

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T Kira Madden
Author of Long Live the Tribe of Fatherless Girls

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Leslie Jamison award-winning, New York Times-bestseling author of The Empathy Exams and The Recovering

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Camonghne Felix
Poet and author of Dyscalculia: A Love Story of Epic Miscalculation

What Our Students are Saying

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Lorraine Boissoneault, an Academy student, had a debut piece published in The New Yorker.

“It's about my experience with heart arrhythmias, and I don't think I'd have had the guts (or coping mechanisms) necessary for writing it without The Unexpected Shape.

Being a member of that community and hearing from speakers like Carmen Maria Machado and Suleika Jaouad taught me so much about sharing the painful, challenging moments of my own life—as did the courses you taught, Esmé, and your own book. I'm hoping to use this essay as the launch pad for a book on chronic illness, similar to The Collected Schizophrenias.

Again, thank you so much for creating a space to talk about our limitations, learn to live with them, and write alongside them. It's really hard being in a disabled/chronically ill body, but having other people who understand makes all the difference.”

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FROM WRITING TO WRITER. The transformation is real.

"If you don’t believe you’re a writer at the start of this course, you will by the end of it."

"When I think about The Unexpected Shape Academy the word that comes to mind is generosity. Esmé and her assistant are incredibly generous with their time, their care, and the effort they put into both the syllabus and making everyone feel welcome and included.

As a non-professional writer attempting the daunting task of creating a non-fiction narrative about climate change, I couldn’t have hoped for a better introduction. This course provides useful insight into both the art and the practice of writing and, thanks to the fantastic guest speakers and panelists, gives an insider’s glimpse into the world of pitching and publishing. If you don’t believe you’re a writer at the start of this course, you will by the end of it.

I can’t recommend this course highly enough–thank you for a wonderful experience!"

—Nina

FINDING COMMUNITY & A UNIQUE WRITING VOICE.

“I have talked to so many people about the Academy recently and one of my favourite things about this group is how trauma-informed it is, and how everyone has difficulties going on and nobody treats it like a bad thing."

—Ophira

Register before May 21 for an early bird bonus.

Your First Five pages workbook

Master the art of crafting compelling memoir openings that hook readers from the start. This practical workbook guides writers living with limitations to establish voice, identify the perfect entry point, and create an irresistible doorway to\ your story—all while honoring your energy boundaries and unique perspective.

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FAQs

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Still on the fence?

I understand that hesitation. Starting something new—especially something as intimate as a writing practice—can feel like stepping off a cliff into the unknown. Perhaps you're wondering if this is truly the right time, if your story matters enough, or if you have what it takes to bring your memoir to life.

Here's what I know: your story, with all its complexity and nuance, deserves to be written. Not someday, not when conditions are perfect, but now. The Academy isn't about forcing yourself into someone else's rigid framework of productivity. It's about finding your way forward with intention, building a writing practice that honors who you actually are.

I've watched hundreds of writers transform their relationship with writing in this program—people who thought they couldn't possibly finish a memoir, who are now confidently putting words on the page. They didn't need to become different people. They simply needed the right guidance, community, and approach.

Trust that this can be different from your previous attempts. Trust that you can write your story, in your way, on your terms. I'll be there with you, every step of the way.

Eyes up; let’s go.

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Do you have a question about the Academy that isn't addressed here? Email Esmé at info@esmewang.com. You can also DM Esmé on Instagram @esmewwang. I love hearing from you!

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